Thursday 26 April 2018

"Being Judgemental" is not wrong, its crucial!

Post witnessing mass phenomenon worldwide specially in India, its a lofty hour to make ourselves open to judge and being judged. We often come across various manifestations where we are held culpable for judging people without knowing about their background and times they are going through! As a matter of fact, i would rather hardly find an earthling who would not be dwindling around a series of rough and tough phases and boldly fighting against those for a better survival.

Excuses are many for all the faulty acts that people do. A bunch go ahead to complain that their family was not supportive wherein some move an extra mile to say some visions they have seen which has revamped their lives to a complete turn. But to be blunt, these are just too lame to subtle it as an excuse to be faulty and commit faulty acts both unethically and illegally. Our prime mindset and nature completely revolves around the social circle we are into. In our daily lives we meet several people with different mindset and field of vision. its our core responsibility to filter people whose views and acts are not sensible enough to be justified. A recent research with the Telegraph and Oxfordshire research community has gone to prove that most rapists have been brainwashed against women of being physically weak which gives men the right to utilize them as a sex material! They have been imbibed a sort of anger into the brains of these people against women leading to gender discrimination and awful mentality. They have been, since their childhood has been constantly fed into their brains to not respect women and look down to their physicality. The same goes with the terrorists giving rise to mass murders in the name of religion and faith. No person is a born offender, but their social circle and people around them do fabricate a heinous environment which makes their senses shut towards the right path. We often see people having a negative thought over judging but people have now tend to ignore the fact that to analyse a human its crucial to know the person and have a perception about a person which will anyways lead to judging. Whats wrong in having a perception about a particular person? Why should we not have a perception to decide if a person is worthy to be in our circle and if the person could be a potential offender? Further more its also salient to remove negativity from life. I always believe in optimism, both in your hard and good times. There are people who would reluctantly take advantage of the hard times and make us feel even more negative. What fruitful would it be to have such people in our circle?

I understand people will say that most of them today have this nature and if we start judging people then it would be laborious to have a social circle. But on the other hand, we are a part of that community too. We can always have a trust on ourselves if we do the right act and get the right knowledge. For every 100 people we meet, there would be one guiding us to the right path and we should assimilate valuing that person and learn sincerely. Individualism is one big thing in life which every person should have and not alter that without judging others on their views and field of opinion! We should first learn and make a thumb rule in life to know whats correct and whats incorrect and then decide on the other persons nature and make a way out. Firstly i would say we should be our own biggest judge and judge our-self every time based on the correct and incorrect acts and logic. We should be always prepared to be judged and not take any step back to judge others. Not to get too much into the other person, but to realize if that person is worth being in our circle for a better living and positivism! Judge.... Judge....and Judge!!!!!!