Friday 15 April 2016

Is committing suicide the ultimate solution?

There has always been a trend of certain actions and ideologies which has been surpassing the nation at frequent intervals. There are days and months where people are speaking about intolerance and then just the next flip is patriotism and the thread is unfurled eventually. At this juncture, we have witnessed the activity which is a crime, a murder. But the thin line lies here where there is no 2nd person involved. Its murdering oneself, which we categorically term as Suicide.

We have been witnessing innumerable cases of Suicide by celebrities, farmers and many other personalities. Few years back we were informed about the suicide case of Jiya Khan, a struggling actress who has also worked in few Bollywood movies, Nishabd to name one of them where she was acting opposite to Mr. Amitabh Bachchan and Ghajini with Aamir Khan. Then we had witnessed farmers of Maharashtra committing suicide due to drought conditions for years. That was the point when Nana Patekar and Akshay Kumar came to their rescue. And again, now we have come across the Pratyusha Banerjee Incident. These cases have extreme differences in terms of background but unfortunately they have been united by the term 'Suicide'. Not going into depth of the reason and background (As we all are aware of it), is it really logical and the last resort to end up your life? Who is benefiting out of it? I dont remember any particular issue which has been resolved after ending your own life. Infact things got worse. The saddest part is people find it too easy to give up their life instead of living and fighting for yourself and your family. I sternly believe that drought stricken farmer's family would be way more upset and saddened by their family member committing suicide than really staying hungry. There are no problems that last forever. Every problem comes with a solution until we stay with sheer pessimists who find a problem for every solution. Had the soldiers and Freedom fighters committed suicide during the time of Independence where they were brutally tortured by the Britishers, we wouldn't have been independent. A proper approach needs to be made to solve issues. Just to mention, there are saviours like Akshay Kumar and Nana Patekar who has ceased the suicide of farmers by assisting them out financially and creating an environment of trust. If there was a no way solution, the farmers could have moved to some other place to make a living until the state of Maharashtra wasn't drought stricken any more. These would have been way better than leaving your family all in vain.

Speaking about the celebrities, how lame is it? They have been successful in their life which has got them into limelight. Breakups are quite common and people should take this as a learning, rather than considering suicide as the last option. The kind of lifestyle they lead, people die for it. They do not lack those things which most people lack. People are always on their toes to pamper them. Against one person who has left you or assaulted you, you have several people in your life who loves you unconditionally. For few, their motive of living is your life and success. How can these earthlings be so self obsessed that they do not even consider the presence of those people who love them and respect them. I wish these people would have thought once about how they would have felt if their parents or brother committed suicide. How would their life go on post that. So what if there is a breakup or you are not being loved by your partner any more. There are ways to get out of it. Spend maximum time with your parents and those people who will never stop loving you. Spend time with your close friends who will always be there to support you. Visit a counsellor and take his/her advise. Get involved into multiple activities which are solely condemned to help the people. This will undoubtedly be a mode of self happiness as well.


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